But also? October is a month that I can't help but think of my mom everyday.
Breast Cancer Awareness Month.
And I know, my mom, would want her story to be shared so others may learn from it. So that's what I do. I share. And bring awareness. This isn't something I normally would bring up on my blog. But I truly believe it is so important to spread the word.
My mom was such a fighter. And a Bob Marley don't worry about a thing type of person. Most of the 4.5 years she battled Breast Cancer, you wouldn't have known that she was going through radiation and chemo almost the entire time. She was diagnosed at the young age of 44 with Stage Four Breast Cancer. You see, Breast Cancer doesn't run in our family. She also nursed all her six of her kids, for a long time. The thought of cancer never popped into my mom's head. After having gallbladder issues and severe back pain, she was eventually diagnosed with cancer. She survived for longer than the doctor's expected.
I wish so badly that she could have met her grandchildren. She lived for her kids and becoming a grandmother one day. But, I'm thankful I can still teach my children about their Mimi. And if you ask Audrey, she knows. She will tell you.
"That's my Mimi."
One of my older sisters, Lisa, my mom, and me, two months before she passed. See those brown eyes? My girls have them!
So, let's do this. Check ourselves and remind our friends and families to do the same.
Also? Celebrate with the survivors this month!
[Squeeze your mom for me too. Call her. Because I want to be able to do that so bad.]
[Squeeze your mom for me too. Call her. Because I want to be able to do that so bad.]
6 comments:
How sweet! your mama would be so proud of the mommy you have become. And yes, your girls do have those dark brown eyes!! Thank you for posting...she sure sounded like a wonderful lady!
I know we don't "know" each other in real life, but I've always thought your Mama must be SO proud of you, smiling down from heaven at the awesome lady you are. This post brought tears to my eyes. What a special Mom you have! You can tell there's a strong spirit and a special spark behind those beautiful brown eyes of hers. What a great reminder to check ourselves and love those around us. xoxo
Abra- I so relate to this post. My other passed away last October, right before my birthday. She was also diagnosed with Stage IV Cancer (but not breast- she had adenocarcinoma). I too wish my mom could have met her granddaughter.
I'm glad to hear your daughter recognizes pictures of your mom. That she's still apart of your kids' lives, even though she can't be there with you guys.
Take Care! Sending you Virtual Hugs!!
Oh, Abra, whenever you talk about your mom it just squeezes my heart up so much. She sounds like she was so special, and your girls *do* have her eyes... what a tender, beautiful way to still "see" her, every day.
Oh, Abra. My kids call my mom Mimi, too. This is just so precious. That is an awesome photo. So much love to you. I hope you're feeling well!
Steph
Abra -
I am glad that God brought me around to your blog again to see this, I have been MIA for quite a few months.
I have always been an advocator for breast cancer awareness but have never had to deal with it directly. My grandma battled colon cancer for 8 years and I would describe her the same way you describe your mother. Had people not known what she was going through, they wouldn't have known anything at all. You, your sisters and the rest of your family are in my thoughts and prayers tonight and always.
*hugs*
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